POST PARTUM BEREAVEMENT

Death Doula Grid

Every client is different. Read the field of consciousness and the spirit babies desire along with the mother and family desires to be healed. Step by step compassion and letting them lead in their healing.

Sessions you will be using KMRT® to acknowledge the physical death of the physical body bringing the body and heart back to wholeness to then create a new magnetic resonance where a new formation of the same soul or another soul will come through to the family. Being present builds her trust back.

Rituals you can use:

Agni as a candle in presence during session. Any guides present through the grid and water in a clay vessel as a representation of her body re formulating itself in conscious awareness.

The five stages of grief:

First described by psychiatrist Elisabeth Kübler-Ross in her 1969 book On Death and Dying, are:

Denial, anger, bargaining, depression, and acceptance. 

It is important to note that these are not a linear or universal "grief cycle" that everyone goes through in order. Rather, they are responses to loss that individuals may experience at different times, in any order, or not at all. They are best understood as a framework to help identify and normalize emotions. 

1st session = 1st trine establishing stage of grief. any subconscious to conscious feelings. Giving space to her/them to become present with their emotions. that takes them into neutrality. Never take emotions away from her/them. Comfort them in allowing her to move through it.

• DENIAL :

• This stage helps us survive the loss by numbing the intensity of the pain. The world may feel meaningless and overwhelming, and you may find it difficult to believe the loss is real. This can show up as: I did everything right why? lack of trust in spirit again.

• ANGER:

  As reality sets in, feelings of frustration and helplessness turn into anger. This anger can be directed at the person who died, yourself, others, or a higher power. Beneath the anger is often pain, and expressing this emotion is a natural part of the healing process. Anger towards themselves, god, their bodies.

• BARGAINING:

  During this stage, you may dwell on "if only" or "what if" statements, trying to regain a sense of control or change the outcome of the event. You might find yourself making deals with yourself or a higher power to postpone the pain or prevent further loss.

• DEPRESSION:

• This stage involves intense sadness and longing, as the full weight of the loss becomes clear. You may withdraw from others, feel overwhelmed, or have difficulty with daily activities. This is a natural and appropriate response to a major loss and is different from clinical depression.

• ACCEPTANCE:

  This is about accepting the reality of the loss and beginning to adjust to a new normal. It does not mean you are "fine" with what happened, but rather that you have come to terms with the situation and can start to move forward with your life. This looks like being present and aware of some light in moving forward. Which is why they may come to you in the first place.

2nd session = 2 trine merges to bring heart consciousness into acceptance of the human passing of the baby/s. being able to gain a new trust and move forward.

3rd session: = 3rd trine to re configure and merge into other two. Which re establishes her from the original blueprint of ancestral memory survival blueprints to create a new cycle to form another connection and a soul can follow or the same soul can return into conscious creation. Or just bringing a connection of body, mind, soul for herself and their family is equally important. Not just to have another baby or try again. You will have to assess each phase.

Circuit breath can be guided for her to practice bringing her body into a new phase reminding her body of that. With the trines connected and daily practice if she feels to the pace she needs for healing will happen. It is important to allow the space and time and pace according to the family. Honouring the souls passing and their stage of grief.